Oh the dating phase. You see that guy that is so fine to your
eyes. You see that girl that is just gorgeous
to your taste. You meet. You eat, laugh, and get to know each other
better. The flowers, the candy, the
cards make it extra special. Your heart
beats harder when you see them. You
heart aches for them when they have to go.
Some women practice writing the guy they’re dating last name. Men show other men how proud they are to say
that’s my lady. Oh yes, dating, what a
wonderful feeling. What a wonderful
phase.
Then one night hormones knocks on
the door. What the two of you to
do? This is just some suggestions I
think can be helpful for those youth that are dating and saved:
1. Pray
before you start your date. I
know when I was practicing this, hormones took a back seat. I don’t know why I stopped. Oh, and if brother is not encouraging the
pray sometimes, RED FLAG!!
2. Go to places where neither of
you will be tempted! Then go home! Hahaha. A kiss good night is nice but keep it
moving! Oh, and don’t get too HBO with
the kiss either. What happens when you
touch a hot stove, need I say more. Hahaa.
It’s also good to go out with others like a double date to avoid temptation
as well.
3. Spend some time on your spirituality. For example, this Friday night we will prayer
together and do a bible study or discussion.
Again, if brother is not feeling this too tough, RED FLAG!!
4. Some things come out by prayer
and fasting. It’s more to our
spiritual lives than just corporate fasting.
Sometimes you have to get in your prayer closet and work it out. So fasting to keep the flesh under subjection
is suggested as well. If brother making
excuses all the time, RED FLAG!!
There is a reason why the Bible
tells us to watch as well as prayer. So
keep mindful of things! Even if it wasn’t
meant to be, you can still remain friends and wish the best for each
other. It’s easier to do that when there
is no sex involved! I have ex’s that if
I saw right now I would be like “heyyyy” J Yet the one with sex, I would be like “oh God”
J
Men, looking back, I wish I would
of stayed doing this. Well, we live and
learn. Hope this helps someoneJ
If anyone needs prayer or just
want to holla at me on this, feel free.
Email: clarke697@gmail.com
Twitter: @evie730
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