Remember in church you will see
the children’s choir and we all would go awww, so cute. Somehow the church would make sure all types
of programs were catered to them. We
would grab their cheeks or give them that hug.
Yet something happened…these same munchkins have now gone from adorable
to hormones. Where is the church then?
We often wonder why that girl got
caught in out of wedlock pregnancy, or you why haven’t seen that boy in church since
he finished high school. Can it be that
the church as a whole ignores our youth needs???
Growing up in church, I was not
perfect at all. As I’ve said in the
past, I started out getting saved because I witnessed the Lord deliver my
mother from alcoholism and a cigarette addiction in one night. Yet how many can say amen to the fact that
you can’t live off of someone else’s testimony forever. Eventually, you have to have your own. I learned the hard way that church is not a
place to expect perfection. I truly
thought back then it would be the one place where it would be problem
free. Yes, I was wrong! I ended up experiencing more hurt from my
peers in church than I did at high school.
Sad but true. Here’s a secret, as
long as I kept my mind on Christ, He kept me in peace. It was the minute I turn my mind towards the
issues that all hell broke loose!
Yes, we were told fornication is a sin, but did anyone think to have youth night to explain in detail? Did anyone say let’s just minister to the youth one Friday night to just let them get it out and have some prayer? Did anyone explain why we shouldn’t be at such places like the club? Where’s the youth ministry, not munchkins, youth! Going to such things like Great Adventures is nice, but Great Adventures isn’t going to help when those hormones knock on the door!
Let’s be real, youth can be saved
and love the Lord, but those hormones are kicking them big time. I hate to say I see the same cycle
today. I am trying my best to encourage
my brother, which at times can be hard as I also understand. I see in my parents the church the young
people that are 18-25 are barely there.
It breaks my heart at times. It
during those prime years is where the devil comes in with decent. That decent can turn into rebellion due to
hurt. That rebellion can cause some
never to get back to their first love.
I know this is women know your
worth. However, I think I want to
address some “youth issues” in some upcoming blogs. I want our youth to be encouraged. Especially my young ladies! Oh and churches, I hope I am giving you something to think about.
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